Your Barista is a talkative introvert

“I’m so tired. Why do I speak a lot when I know it exhausts me???”,  “Why do I start a conversation when I’m socially exhausted???”, “Why do I still sound cheerful even if I’m drained?”.

To answer these questions, I did my research on introverts (just to confirm, even if I knew already), and yes. I consider myself as one. Being a Barista has been socially exhausting for me. Engaging in insignificant small talks drains the hell out of me. Asking about how someone’s day is, and forgetting about it after that transaction feels useless and at the same time necessary for a shop to be inviting & comforting. Basically, baristas are also therapists hahaha (kidding). 

When an enthusiast comes up by the bar and seems curious about the coffee things we offer, I can’t help myself but ask, engage in conversation and give a whole lecture about coffee. Introverts are also some of those who can speak non stop when it comes to something they’re passionate about. It so happens that I’m in that profession… hmpft. 

For some reason, even if I love what I do as a Barista, it feels as if I wouldn’t want to stay for long, because it could easily burn me out. Yes, I do well in customer service or crafting drinks, but it’s all because it’s part of my job. Hospitality is part of my education and nationality, and I also have to be this way and give my very best in whatever I do. It’s in my character to work as a professional, and naturally be an introvert. 

A way for me to relieve this exhaustion is by swimming, running or doing some workout. Some type of solitude. To wrap it up, I love what I do, but if I can’t take it anymore, you’ll find me in that calm down cabinet. Just so you know.